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Learn From These Mistakes Before You Learn Anger Management

If he did not control his temper, an angry man is like a frustrated bull with the strength of a thousand men; he might end up ruining his own life. In most of the scenarios of anger management, our brain stops functioning at the time of anger attack. I will, however, explain to you how to resolve this mental health ...

If he did not control his temper, an angry man is like a frustrated bull with the strength of a thousand men; he might end up ruining his own life. In most of the scenarios of anger management, our brain stops functioning at the time of anger attack. I will, however, explain to you how to resolve this mental health issue in a short while.

We all know, the women have excellent techniques, they have mostly seen breaking the pots in the kitchen when anger rose to their head. Further, they don’t cook food for that entire day.

Therefore, that’s what they can do until their god gifted patience gets over. However, men are different, the connection between their conscious brain and body becomes weaker that time. However, they always found using the power of their physical body in their short temper rather of using the mind.

Anger management is a very difficult task

There are two types of anger in our society, and it is very dangerous for human beings. I can see people who can’t burn the anger, they finish themselves (suicide). However, the other ones who burn the anger by finishing the others (killing others). Therefore, there is a loss at both the side. Both of them use no part of the brain and becomes a target of death or problems. People suicide every year, around 700,000 globally.

Those who finish himself I call it a suicide and one who kills others, they are rapists, and murderers etc. But, why it happens? It clearly says that there is a lack of knowledge and understanding. To increase the knowledge and understanding, we have to talk to ourselves not in front of the mirror, but also, closing our eyes and speak to your soul and make friendship with it. That soul friendship which will become closer to you and will never leave you alone in the difficult situations.

When Frustration limit reaches you cannot hold on to anger management

Any frustration has limit, whether it is an elephant (animal), a sacred human or a saint. Scared people have an infinite limit on anger management, they can easily control anger. Thus, that controlling power is a thousand times more than the average human. It only could develop by our strongest friendship with the soul, and that becomes difficult to break the connection between the soul and our physical body.

As the connection between soul and body looses, the concentration of our mind becomes weak.

If you are talking about how the animal does in this case, they have very less power to connect with their souls. However, maybe a thousand times less than an average man does. That is why animals have no patience at all, quickly attack to human except trained animals.

Different Techniques of Anger management

I have seen some people like our dear women mostly break few things in the house, like pot, don’t go to the office, no cooking, swimming, and running. Furthermore, men approaches toward the bad habits like drinking and smoking or fighting with family members without reasons. It happens just to release the anger of someone else’s frustration at home. As well as, cruel human beat someone, commit fraud, go to jail and dangerous human kill someone innocents. 

On the other hand, all the people who cannot manage anger, they break or finish the life.

What I do in this situation

It had never been any worst thing so far in my life, I got some bad habits like smoking and drinking occasionally while I manage my anger. But eventually, it is manageable, and my bad habits are like air human gasses, sometimes comes and goes. My bad habits never give me company for the rest of my life. The anger management is a skill that everyone should know.

Whenever I caught in such situation, I go away from home and spend some quality time alone. I never take any decision at that time furiously. I keep myself quite or want a bit longer break alone in the bedroom so that I can compose the things very well. When my wife become sad. Therefore, she sits at a nook from any worst conversation. I simply go to her and make her smile – it is our rule of each-other to take a lead any one of us and bring happiness back. This is how life is and should want to be for us. A self-centred person faces difficulties maintaining the relationship. I believe this is the life. Thus, it works very well every time.

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